Well, here we are! It’s April in my #yearofwriting adventures and I have not one but TWO big announcements, so let me start with those…
1. I started a new blog, The Cookie Dough Life!
The first week of April was not good for me. I hadn’t slept very well and I was increasingly frustrated about, to tell you the truth, I can’t even remember what. But out of my frustration was born a new blog that I have called The Cookie Dough Life.
While you’re totally welcome to read the full story of why I started the blog (and I hope you do!), here’s the main thing you need to know: Being cookie dough is the realization that I’m not done baking yet… Meaning that I haven’t figured it all out, and maybe that’s okay. Living The Cookie Dough Life is about embracing the fact that life is constantly changing and evolving, and so am I.
And, of course, I am going to take you on that journey. Really, it’s going to replace me writing random stuff on this site, which I am keeping as more of a portfolio site going forward. Oh, and in case you’re wondering, here is my favorite post so far: A year ago, I was single, unemployed, homeless, broke, fat and drunk.
2. I’m a Lifestyle Writer at Romper as of May 1st!
In even MORE exciting news, I am happy to (finally) announce that I am joining Romper as a PT Lifestyle Writer starting Monday, May 1st! WOO HOO!
I will be covering various topics but, for those that don’t know Romper: They are a parenting site for millennial moms and are the sister site of Bustle (which is for millennial women in general). I’ve been a huge fan and follower of both since their launch, and am absolutely thrilled to be joining the team.
I realize that’s not really an April writing thing, but I did apply, interview for and get the job in the month of April, so I think it should count. Oh, and in case you’re wondering: No, I’m not a mom (yet, in fact, I write about that here) but I know I will be someday and I have plenty of experience writing about mom topics previously. So, needless to say, I am just OH SO EXCITED!
And now on to the rest of the month…
What was published:
- Marrying a Man Doesn’t Make Me Straight [A Practical Wedding]
- I’m Not Ready for Kids — but Waiting Might Not Be an Option [CafeMom]
- Teetotal Like a Boss: Tips for Enjoying a Party When You’re Not Drinking [The Kitchn]
- A Whole State Has Decided to Stop Lunch-Shaming Kids [Mom.me]
- Little Boy Who Received Heart Transplant News in Viral Video Suffers Serious Setbacks [Mom.me]
- The Secret to Raising Happy Kids? Just Ask Dutch Parents [Mom.me]
- The Photo Series That Makes Us Love Our Postpartum Bodies [Mom.me]
- The Children’s Book Rap That Will Blow Your Mind [Mom.me]
- 15 Tiny changes you can make to cut calories easily & lose weight
- 5 Things we can learn from Selena Gomez’s battle with depression & anxiety [MamásLatinas]
- 6 Things you should NEVER do before bed to keep a healthy body & mind [MamásLatinas]
- 10 Ways that Selena Quintanilla continues to inspire us all [MamásLatinas]
Breaking into three new publications has been pretty fun this month, especially because they were all posts that were very personal to me: The first about being bisexual (even though I plan to marry a man), the second about my fertility fears (a subject near and dear to my heart) and the third about how to party sober (since I’m in recovery).
All of those stories were written last month, with the fertility fears story actually being written in January. Can you believe how long I had to wait for it to publish?! But this happens, and it was still thrilling to see the story live… FINALLY!
How much I wrote: 23,487 words
How much I made: $1750
This has been my most successful writing month BY FAR, I have to say. I basically wrote double of what I had in February and March, and made as much money as I did in January (except that two stories back then were on spec, which didn’t get picked up).
Part of the reason that I wrote so much was also because I am counting my words for The Cookie Dough Life. Maybe that’s a little bit unfair because I’m not getting paid for that so, at first glance, it seems as if I am getting paid less to write more… but that’s not the case, because this writing is personal and just for me.
Pitches sent out in April: 5
Pitch rejections: 0
Pitch non-replies: 3
Pitch acceptances: 2 (sort of)
Pitch reply with question: 0
Follow-ups with previous pitches: 6
Pitch rejections: 1
Pitch non-replies: 5
Pitch acceptances: 0
Of course, the story gets a little bit more complicated when you look at the pitches I sent out this past month. Basically, let’s face it: they suck. I barely pitched, and most of it wasn’t until the very end of the month (last week, in fact) and that’s that.
I don’t love the way that looks, to be honest, but part of the reason is because I’ve been busy this month, my organization has recently gone to shit and I was actually doing a lot more writing than usual (as you saw above) which obviously meant a lot less time for pitching.
I don’t love this, but I will say that I wrote four brand-new-to-me freelance pieces in January, two in February, two in March and six in April. I’m pretty proud of those numbers and I guess I just have to live with the fact that in a month where you freelance more than before, are in the middle of a job application (as I was for a while) AND also start a new blog, you just won’t be able to fit everything in. And that’s okay.